In The traditional texts, it is actually narrated that before the union of Vishnu and Lakshmi, the thought of enjoyment and wish was not known to the planet. Kam darpayani?”, or “whom shall I you should?” By this well-known issue he obtained the title Kandarpa, which was his father’s remedy: https://gregorysharg.amoblog.com/kamdev-an-overview-52214089